How Deep is your L O V E?
i've been reading up on people skills and then realised this part which is very special and decide to take it down and post it here :P" Connection with others means inclusion, involvement, affiliation, support, love, affection and membership. People with concerns about connections are fearful about being left out or ignored. Extreme concerns with connection can develop out of early experiences of being either abandoned or smothered. Individuals who are overly concerned with connection may come across as needy or intrusive. They may tend to live through others.
People who are uncomfortable with connection may be withdrawn or have a tendency to avoid others. Often people are ambivalent about connection: They may want it, but fear it or believe they don't deserve it. Instead of connection, they obtain distance. Such individuals may seek attention through rebellion or deviant behaviour. The reponses they get usually reinforce their ambivalence. These are the people who live according to the maxim: "negative strokes are better than no strokes." "
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