things running through my mind...
lots of things running through my mind, less confused and stressed as i was a mth ago...things are becoming clearer, instead of doing what i think is right or doing what i feel is right? well, at least i finally have a direction now. :) the road ahead will be tough , but what i've learnt is " When the going gets tough, the tough gets going."
now i just let things fall into place naturally :)
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" The principles of courtship are fairly straightforward. We want love and seek a source of love whom we can lavish our love upon. When that is not the case with someone, it is best to let it go. But when love is mutually there with more care and tenderness than you could have hoped for.. do not feel you have to cage or earn it. Simply reward it with the only fitting recompense, which is to give love in return."
"...two separate lives into one joint venture, each person begins to care for the other as much or more as they care for themselves. The worries, problems, joys and laughter of the other become as important as their very own. If one is cold or hungry, the other cannot rest until there is warmth or food for the other. If one is sad, the other cannot enjoy laughter until attending to their mate's source of grief. If one is rejoicing over some good fortune, the other is equally glad for them. These are the general directions two people take with each other when love begins to motivate their hearts in the way they treat each other."
"when love seems to grow mutually without the need for force or contrivance you have happened upon something very special indeed. It is like two magnets that increase in attractive force the closer they approach each other."
"What does that mean in reality terms? It means you and your mate find more joy in being together than in what you happen to be doing or where you go. It means gifts are valued based on the emotions they represent rather than the dollar amount spent. It means you would rather spend the evening wiping your loved one's tears than dancing with a multitude of friends. It means you find yourself respected and care for without having to grasp for it. It means someone else's life has become as important as your own. "
- http://www.lifegoeson.net
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